Dear husband was forced back to work on Thursday. He had plenty of sick leave to continue staying home, but he wasn't given the option. His boss said the orders came from far up the chain. So, he is back to the guest bedroom and we have increased our cleaning practices. Some days I feel like we are doing overkill and others that we aren't doing enough. It is a very confusing experience with few known facts to help us in our decisions. However, we keep coming back to an abundance of caution, so our entire family can make it through this experience. We are strong and shall rise above this and what seems likely to come (an economic depression). No matter what happens in the world and our nation, our finances take a downward turn on May 1st with the loss of our son's adoption stipend. We have been preparing for this for a long time and hopefully we are ready for this occurrence . So much is different than we thought it would be. We always assumed that four out of the five of us could take on part-time jobs if needed. With the downturn of the economy, that looks to be unlikely. However, I am not terribly worried. I know we will find our way through. We are just taking it one month at a time, and being home all the time is much cheaper than our normal lives.
I have started recording our accomplishments with all of our extra time at home. This week I shredded about 800 pieces of paper that were mostly medical papers and old bank statements that were no longer relevant. I now have to file about 200 pieces of paper that are still relevant. The huge filing drawer is now empty. Honestly, this has been on my to do list for years. It feels good to get more organized and to have less stuff.
I think I am going to turn this drawer that used to be filled with papers into a blanket drawer. |
The Perrier and makeup wipes were treats for the kids. |
We also put in a small garden last weekend. So far it is looking good. I hope we can make it grow successfully. This rocky mountain soil is hard on plants. We did add a few bags of good gardening soil. We also worked on the strawberry bed that had been attacked by vines. It was almost lost last year when we had intense rain.
Easter was lovely. I purchased a ham and Easter candy when everything started looking like our country was in trouble. We had a calm time of reflection and family togetherness at home. Then we made our little feast and ate dinner. We took a plate to Grandma and left it on her porch table. It was a different kind of Easter.
Anne heard about a nationwide prom being held on YouTube and wanted to join in. She FaceTimed with a friend while they did their makeup and laughed about the dance they had gone to last year. She asked me to dress up and join her. She decorated the living room and even created a photo booth. We made snacks and settled down for the YouTube prom. It really wasn't that cool after all, so we found our own music and laughed and danced a bit. Then we settled into a movie. It was a fun evening and lifted Anne's spirits a bit about the homeschool formal having been cancelled this year.
I only got a picture of my dinner plate. |
Blessings, Dawn
I love the prom idea, and you both look lovely! Wow, $103 doesn't go far in your area. I went to a locally owned butcher shop this week, and also had sticker shop...but my goodness the meat was SO much better than what we've been getting!
ReplyDeleteI was really surprised to find our grocery store really well stocked when I went on Friday. I left with almost 2 full carriages of food (which is pretty normal for us) but I did feel like I spent more than usual and I am noticing prices slowly rising. I am liking your birthday party idea! My oldest has a birthday coming up and I've been trying to think up some way to make it fun.
ReplyDeleteI think that celebrating prom together was a delightful idea! And the idea that your house is a party house even under quarantine is so fun! Losing that adoption subsidy is so much harder than I knew it would be. When Rose Red's stopped, even though we'd been trying to prepare, it was shocking. It will be even harder I think in another 10-12 years when the youngest kids' subsidies end--though their special needs may make them eligible for extensions. Wouldn't your boy qualify, too?
ReplyDeleteIn North Carolina they don't have any extensions. The subsidy is only for special needs kids. "Normal" kids under 5 do not get a subsidy.
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