Friday, September 3, 2021

Another Fun Outing!

We won't be going to the state fair again this year (even if it doesn't get cancelled), so I thought going to a place that had fair food would be fun. We went to a small shop here in town that sells lots of carnival foods and specialty desserts. We got six different things to share. Talk about sugar overload for a family that doesn't eat that much sugar. None of us felt very good later in the day, but we had so much fun trying the desserts.  Most were new to us and some were old favorites.

Funnel cake is an old favorite and was the best thing we had.

Donuts, Fried Oreos and The Spawn
(a very strange drink with coffee, chai, caramel, chocolate cake and who knows what else in it)

A Root beer Float, which we all liked

The Fried Oreo was so interesting and tasty, but I would pick the funnel cake over it any day.

Butter Beer which tasted mostly like a caramel chai tea, but who could skip a nod to Harry Potter.


Elijah liked the donuts and the Spawn the best. He will eat anything with coffee in it. Tim and Rebekah liked the funnel cake and donuts the best. Dad liked the Butter Beer and Fried Oreos. I liked the funnel cake and root beer float. We ended up tossing about half of all the drinks. It was just way too much sugar. 

Update on the rest ~ Rebekah has now completed two weeks of the professional day program. She is tired and sore, but so appreciates the opportunity. The audition results for Nutcracker are in, and she is the Spanish soloist, a demi-soloist snowflake, a demi-soloist flower and the understudy for Snow Queen. She is very pleased with the results. 

Elijah is doing wonderfully at Target. He is even starting to come home talking about "my friend this and my friend that". I am so glad he is making work friends and feels accepted. He also seems to be doing a great job getting his work done and reaching out to Human Resources when he has questions. He is doing a marvelous job managing his anxiety.

They both still need lots of support to get out of the house each morning, and I am doing a bulk of the driving. This is in part due to the need for me to have the mini van and in part due to the difficult places that Rebekah would have to drive on her own during rush hour. She is fine getting to and from work, but the dance academy is in a very difficult part of town and just getting out of the parking lot is complicated during many times of the day. So for now, I spend upwards of 3.5  hours a day in the car driving, supporting a new driver while she drives and waiting for them to get in or out of work/dance. It is an adjustment, but one I don't mind a bit. Motherhood is a constantly changing experience. 

Lastly, our daughter Katie is having many health and mental health issues right now. Everything seems to be going wrong, and she is struggling to get in with doctors who can get to the bottom of things. She is absolutely refusing help from family and friends. I am not sure how much help she is accepting from the group home since, she wants to be independent and doesn't share her information and we can't talk to them. Unfortunately, she is her own worst enemy much of the time. We are trying to be supportive from the sidelines.

Blessings, Dawn

5 comments:

  1. Hi miss Dawn! I’ve followed your blog for years, but this is my first comment. I find both your writing style and approach to life to be very soothing. Thank you for maintaining this space. Prayers for you and yours!

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  2. I love fried oreos and funel cake! The Spawn sounds...different. Prayers for Katie, and for momma's heart as you watch her struggle.

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  3. We just went to our local fair on Friday night (we hadn't been in nearly 8 or perhaps 9 years) and fried Oreos were quite the thing! My middle son tried those as well as his usual fried dough. I could not decide on anything and finally ended up just eating some ice cream before heading home.

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  4. Well, rats! I'm sorry to hear about Katie's hard time. It's so hard to step back from a struggling young adult! I'm having to do it regularly, too.

    Hurrah for your emerging young adults!!! I feel proud of them even though I am actually a stranger to them. :)

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  5. Glad to hear Elijah's job is going well!

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