Showing posts with label Homeschooling. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Homeschooling. Show all posts

Friday, June 18, 2021

A Graduation Party!


Watch out! Here comes a picture heavy post. Rebekah graduated last weekend. We had a lovely party for her with almost everyone we invited being able to come. It was a perfect day. She had a wonderful mix of former teachers, friends, family and others who had impacted her life through the years. We rented a picnic shelter near our home and the weather cooperated perfectly. We were a bit worried because it rained every day for a week before the event. 





We did a quick photo shoot a few days before the party.
 


Rebekah was inducted into the National Honor Society for Dance Arts this year. One of the directors of the dance studio she danced at for the last 12 years presented her with a pin and certificate. He did a sweet presentation that took us on a quick journey down Memory Lane. 



We presented Rebekah with her diploma and then her brothers shot her with confetti cannons. It was a perfect addition to our celebration. ALSO,  I made it most of the way through my presentation without crying. 


The "photo booth" with gold streamers was very popular. The teen girls spent tons of time taking all matter of photos, both serious and totally silly.





We set up several games around the picnic shelter. We had Elijah's Giant Jenga blocks that so many people had signed and decorated for his graduation last year. Many of our guests were the same people who had decorated those blocks, and they really enjoyed seeing them in use and what others had written. We also had spike ball, corn hole, yard Yahtzee and Skittles. 




We served pinwheel sandwiches, cuties, chips, soda and cupcakes. I am so glad we picked food that we didn't mind eating, because there was a ton of leftovers. 


Some teens headed for the playground. Your never too old to play...right!?




We set up an antique suitcase to collect cards. She got so many sweet cards. We also made a poster board filled with photos of her homeschool years ... so many cherished memories.


We placed flowers at each table with a sweet picture of Rebekah in each bouquet. The one below was my favorite. It shows Rebekah receiving her first certificate for completing her reading program and officially becoming a reader. 



It was such a blessed day. I can hardly believe this part of my journey is over. It has been such a delight and honor to homeschool my precious children for the last 22 years. I am so very, very grateful for the opportunity to impact these amazing young people that we are blessed to have in our lives. I will be continuing to post ... we will just be transitioning to life posts.

Blessings, Dawn

Saturday, August 1, 2020

Camp, Turkeys, and Sewing

I have struggled with my attitude this week. I think it is mostly a result of hoping that we could go on a small overnight vacation next week. That will not be the case. COVID-19 gets worse and worse all the time. I couldn't find anywhere with lower numbers or without hot spots that were better than ours in a three hour radius. Welcome to the South. So we will stay put and I will adjust my attitude. Really, I have little reason to complain as so many living through this crisis. Think of Anne Frank, who sat in a tiny attic for three years before being caught and eventually killed. I am free to move within my community without fear for my life. I have food, shelter, books, movies, fun pets and family to pass the time. I have the Internet. Need we say more?

I did manage to snag one picture from the owner of the camp's Facebook page of Elijah Dean at camp this week. They were in the middle of a war and those lying on the ground had already met their fate. This week was a bit better than last week's camp. The heat was a little bit less, but there were more boys so the energy of the kids was higher. He got a nice check on the last day of work, along with compliments for his hard work and his calming effect on the campers. 
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Elijah Dean is the farthest left laying down in the picture

In other news, the tree men came back to remove the precarious tree from behind the dance shed. They started with three men and swelled to six before all was said and done. They discovered that the tree was filled with cement that some former home owner had used as a means to "secure" the tree! With much work, they finally brought it to the ground where it will lay until my husband can break it into firewood. It is in a part of our yard that we do not use, so there is no rush. Unfortunately, as it came down, the tree hit the dance shed and the roof needs to be fixed once again. The contractor has already come out and the work is almost done at no cost to us. I am so relieved that the tree is down and did not hurt anyone. It did enough damage even with lots of guidance from the professionals.


Anne tried learning to sew before but got easily frustrated. But this summer, she has taken to sewing like a duck to water. She has made six ballet skirts this week, three for friends and three for herself. She is already talking about possibly making and selling them on Depop. She also has learned how to make hair scrunchies. Unfortunately, making three tiered masks are still alluding her. I hope it is just a mental block. Making them would be useful to our family.  




Anne also went to work, did nine history lessons and took three dance classes (two on Zoom and one in the park). She is a highly motivated girl.

I did a bit of touch-up painting of the kitchen this week. I also tried to stay on top of the gardens that we have been improving this summer. The rest of my week was spent enjoying pets, keeping up with normal household stuff, shuttling kids here and there and continuing to sort stuff for donation. I hope to paint a ceiling or two next week. 

What we ate this week ~ 
  • Puff pastry quiche
  • Turkey cutlets with mashed potatoes and green beans
  • Peanut chicken pasta
  • Stuffed butternut squash
  • Orange chicken
Just two pictures to give you a wee chuckle ... because we all need a chuckle right about now.
Never a dull moment shopping with this girl.

These fine feather friends were waiting to shop when I dropped Anne off to work. 

Blessings, Dawn

Friday, March 6, 2020

Stretching and Growing

We have had an amazing last couple weeks. A week ago last Thursday Anne and I took off with 13 other teens and their dance teachers to attend the NC Dance Festival at The North Carolina School of the Arts. It was an incredible experience for all. The girls were challenged with eight classes that exposed them to a diverse palette of dance. The girls were divided into three different leveled groups which kept the chaperones hopping, getting everyone where they needed to go. The girls got to take classes in jazz, several ballet classes, musical theater, contemporary, pointe and character dance. Anne loved the jazz and musical theater classes the most. Each girl also had the opportunity to go through an official audition for the upcoming summer camp 5 week intensive. Anne took the ballet audition with the understanding that she would not be able to attend camp, even if she is selected. It is way out of our price range, and she can't leave her part-time job for that long. However, it was  a great experience to go through an audition.
Anne and her friend L were in the most advanced level for which our dance studio participants qualified.

Our whole group in the lobby of the hotel.
To keep costs down, we decided to stay in two hotel suites, which meant two chaperones and seven girls in each suite. We had three sleeping on the floor in each room. It was super crowded, but everyone got along great. We also brought our own food for dinner and lunch. The kids had sandwiches, fruit and juice boxes for lunch. For the dinners, we used a slow cooker to make loaded baked potatoes,spaghetti and a variety of sauces plus salad, and pizza on the last night. We made as much food at home as we could and warmed it up in slow cookers in the hotel room. 
Ballet Tech class


Jazz Improv class


My Leaping Daughter

We also had the delight of seeing two performances. We especially loved the winter showcase put on by the college. It was fun getting all dressed up and going into the city to a beautiful theater. It was a long and exhausting weekend...but so amazing. It was totally worth the long hours and lack of sleep. 

We got home after midnight on Sunday (Monday morning). My husband and boys did great on their all guy weekend. They followed the schedule and menu plan that I left them. They also had a wonderful time going to Target and buying all the snacks of their dreams! We spent Monday through Wednesday trying to chase off illness and doing a bit of school. I also went out to dinner with a friend who I haven't been out with in years. It was a lovely adult night.
My amazing dinner out
By the time Thursday rolled around, it was time for my sons and husband to head out for a long weekend in a neighboring state at a Belegarth competition. They are having a wonderful time sword fighting (with foam weapons), camping, cooking over open fires and generally being guys. Thanks to cell phones, I can keep in touch with them. The weather is a bit rough, so I have encouraged them to go to a hotel tonight since it might snow. But they haven't decided to "wimp out" yet. If they stay in the field overnight, they first will go to Walmart and get an extra sleeping bag or two to use as comforters over their existing sleeping bags. I hope they continue to have a great time. 

Dean

Their tents

There are moments in life when we get to stretch and grow a great deal in a short amount of time. This is one of those weeks. We are so blessed.

Blessings, Dawn



Sunday, February 9, 2020

Sharing Great Literature with Reluctant Readers

I have a houseful of "reluctant readers".  I have heard plenty of times that reluctant readers are born from a lack of exposure to great literature or because they have been allowed to watch television or play video games instead of reading. Although TV and video games do pull at many children's interests, I don't think that is the primary reason why kids resist reading. I think kids and adults who have had lots of pleasant exposure to literature choose other activities other than reading because they have some difficulty with reading. We as people tend to try to choose the easy path whenever possible.

I think reading is by far one of the most complicated things that we do every day. First, students' eyes need to work properly to be able to read comfortably. They need to be able to track from left to right, up and down and keep each letter and word in focus. This process is much easier if both eyes work together and are equal partners in the process. Second,  students need exceptional reading comprehension to be good readers. This means they need knowledge of vocabulary meanings, skills in decoding of words, and the ability to read at a speed that is neither too fast or too slow so that the material can process into their brains. Finally, they need to have excellent processing skills to pull all of that together to understand and remember what they have read.

So as I said, I have a houseful of reluctant readers. Each of us struggles for a different reason. I was born with crossed eyes (strabismus), which were corrected surgically in babyhood. I then had many years of optometric vision therapy. However, my right eye is still very weak and would prefer to "sleep" through life instead of pulling its own weight. I wear special glasses to keep that eye engaged most of the time, but I am still worn out by the end of the day. Consequently, I usually don't choose to read, even when I have a book that I am really enjoying. In addition, I am a slow reader and have already spent hours of the day reading necessary material or reading to my children. Between these two issues, I can take weeks to finish one book. I feel ashamed admitting that, even though it isn't my fault. I even switch out books to take a book to the dance waiting room that isn't the one that I truly want to read, because I don't want people to see that I am still reading the same book as last week!

I could go on and explain all of the issues that each of my children have with reading, but we would be here all day. To say the least, we deal with focusing issues, dyslexia, memory issues, processing issues and reading speed. My kids all have great vocabulary. They always come out with advanced vocabulary skills on every test, and they have been heavily exposed to literature since infancy. They simply choose other means of entertainment because of the struggle they find with reading.

However, we forge on and continue to enjoy lots of great literature. Here are some of the ways we keep literature in our lives:
  • Large print books ~ Making the print large helps my crew focus, reduces how many words they have to concentrate on, line by line and page by page. It gives our eyes a break.
  • Graphic novels ~ I have found that there are some wonderful graphic novels for sale now that stick very closely to the story and use lots of pictures and few words to convey the story.
  • Audio books ~ This is not my kids' favorite vehicle to literature. They enjoy being read to but not listening to audio books. With audio books, they struggle with the reading speed, accents, and sound effects. However, my adult son loved audio books when he was a child, so they do work for some.
  • Reading excerpts from great literature ~ All one needs to do is Google best excerpts from a particular book and one can find lists of short passages. 
  • Movies ~ We have found some great movies based closely on literature.
  • Family read aloud ~ Great literature is meant to be shared. Reading together leads to wonderful conversations. 
  • Activities that enhance a story ~ Going on a field trip, or doing an art or cooking project that goes along with the literature often brings the story to life. 
  • Documentaries ~ There are often excellent documentaries on YouTube about great works of literature.
So how does this look in action? Recently, we completed The Jungle by Upton Sinclair. Sometimes I start them reading a piece of literature or read it to them myself and find that they are "hating" it. Usually, this is because it moves too slowly, uses Old English style, or has too much imagery for their brains to process. When this happens, I change gears and reach them from a different direction. I knew this would be the case with The Jungle. It is very wordy and relies heavily on imagery. So I researched and found a graphic novel that portrayed the story through a nice combination of words and pictures. The children read it to themselves and answered comprehension questions that I wrote out. Then we watched a documentary on The Jungle from YouTube. Next, we read excerpts from The Jungle  that we found on Goodreads.com and a few other websites. Lastly, we related the book to present times with issues that are still taking place in the food industry. We watched several episodes of Rotten on Netflix. My teens were truly touched by the plight of immigrants and our need for access to clean, healthy food. 

We wrapped up our study by learning about chocolate and how slave wage labor is behind most of the chocolate consumed around the world. We studied the companies that use fair trade cocoa and set out to find slave free chocolate. This small candy bar costs $5. It isn't cheap but tasted extra good, knowing that no one had been treated horribly in the process of making that candy bar.
“So long as we have wage slavery," answered Schliemann, "it matters not in the least how debasing and repulsive a task may be, it is easy to find people to perform it. But just as soon as labor is set free, then the price of such work will begin to rise. So one by one the old, dingy, and unsanitary factories will come down—it will be cheaper to build new; and so the steamships will be provided with stoking machinery, and so the dangerous trades will be made safe, or substitutes will be found for their products. In exactly the same way, as the citizens of our Industrial Republic become refined, year by year the cost of slaughterhouse products will increase; until eventually those who want to eat meat will have to do their own killing—and how long do you think the custom would survive then?—To go on to another item—one of the necessary accompaniments of capitalism in a democracy is political corruption; and one of the consequences of civic administration by ignorant and vicious politicians is that preventable diseases kill off half our population. And even if science were allowed to try, it could do little, because the majority of human beings are not yet human beings at all, but simply machines for the creating of wealth for others. They are penned up in filthy houses and left to rot and stew in misery, and the conditions of their life make them ill faster than all the doctors in the world could heal them; and so, of course, they remain as centers of contagion, poisoning the lives of all of us, and making happiness impossible for even the most selfish. For this reason I would seriously maintain that all the medical and surgical discoveries that science can make in the future will be of less importance than the application of the knowledge we already possess, when the disinherited of the earth have established their right to a human existence.”
― Upton Sinclair, The Jungle

The documentaries we watched ~ 

Blessings, Dawn

Friday, January 3, 2020

Looking Back ~ Looking Forward

We had a lovely Christmas break. Well, in reality we only took Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, and New Year's Day off this year. We are in a nice school groove right now and no one felt or feels the need to stop. So we continued and it felt good. We still felt like we were on break because there were no dance or out-of-the-home classes. We read for an hour or more every day as a family and knocked out several books. We watched movies at home and even went to one in the theater. Anne built a 1000 piece puzzle. She has missed puzzles and really enjoyed having the time to do one. We may even squeeze in one more before the crazy really starts up again. Dean spent more time drawing and exercising outside in our crazy warm weather. Oh, and the Christmas Eve service at church was gorgeous. I wish I had taken a picture. We also hosted our 3rd annual New Year's Day party with great success (which I will talk about next Thursday). It was a lovely pause in our usual busy lives.
Our silly dog ate three pieces!
One evening we decided to do a dance photo shoot with our city's holiday light display. The temperature was in the low 50's, so we grabbed our chance. Anne created a bit of a stir downtown with several tourists requesting dance moves be performed. Our city is famous for its street performers, and I think some of them thought she was one of the street performers.





Now it is January...a new month, new year and new decade. There is so much hope in a fresh start. This decade promises great changes in our family. All of our children will grow into adults and be in their late 20's and 30's by the time this decade ends. That is an amazing thought for me! I have been a mother of minors for three decades...every minute of my adult life thus far. No wonder my urge to start a preschool is so strong. Change is hard, but it can also be beautiful and exciting. I look forward to seeing how this next chapter in my life plays out. However, we aren't there yet. There are two lovely teens to graduate and tons of work to do on their journey to adulthood. Our January goals are as follows:
Learning about Gravitational Attraction
  • My husband is taking over all physics experiments. I just can't bring up the energy for physics. It is my least favorite science. I am doing the reading material and worksheets with the kids and he is doing the experiments. It is going so much better.
  • Continue reading for an hour or more as a family each day. We are enjoying biographies, government books, literature and a few science books. It is a nice mix.
  • Watch a movie for literature, history or science once a week.
  • Fill out paperwork for Dean's homeschool graduation this spring!!
  • Sign Anne up for six hours of private driving lessons, which is a state requirement on her journey for a license. 
  • Dean will complete U.S. History II credit and maybe his Visual Arts III credit.
  • Anne will complete her Health Credit and U.S. History I credit.
Our other goals are financial goals. We lose almost 20% of our income in May due to the loss of Dean's adoption assistance at age 18. He received this benefit because he was a special needs adoption from foster care. I also was required to be a stay-at-home mom for many years as part of his adoption requirements (not that I would have wanted it any other way). There are some other big expenses coming down the road right now as well, a dying mini van, health insurance changes and necessary home repairs...not to mention community college for Anne in the next 18 months. We have known that this is coming for a long time and are actively preparing for the change. We had assumed that I would go to work part-time around this time, but the special needs of my family still makes it in everyone's best interest that I remain a stay-at-home mother. We hope to continue to shave off expenses wherever we can for the next year or two so that I can do just that. If we really need more income, I will most likely start a daycare home, which is something I have loved in the past and keeps me at home. This is all said to announce that I will be starting a Thrifty Thursday post with some of my ideas on how we are saving our pennies.

Blessings, Dawn